Father
Zisis Rekkas crouches on the gymnasium floor of École Demosthenes to make sure
he’s made eye-contact with his audience.
He engages them with his passionate words, warnings, and cautionary
tales. Father Zisis is a man on a mission. Every Saturday night, from 6 to 8 pm,
he plays hockey or basketball with kids from the Greek Orthodox Youth
Association also called GOYA ―a group he founded. Before the games begin, he “straight-talks” to
them about the meaning of life, about being grateful, about compassion and hard
work, about “loving thine enemies” and about forgiveness ―about those good old-fashioned
values we, parents want so badly for our children to learn, but yet…just can’t
seem to fit into our hectic schedule. Father Zisis’ mission is to make sure his
young flock learns the easy way what he had to learn the hard way; “The world
out there right now is CRAP. I grew up in a poor neighborhood in Toronto, near
crack houses and gangs, and prostitutes and the mob. It was hard, but the
Church was my salvation. You have a safe place here. So when you go home
tonight, thank your parents for what they have given you.”
Father
Zisis speaks in a blunt, no-holds barred fashion. With him, what you see is
what you get. His words are from the
heart, and always intended to make you think.
I first met Father Zisis back in October, while attending mass on a
Sunday at St-Nicholas Church in Chomedey during my election campaign. His sermon after mass was like a bucket of
ice-cold water on my tired and sleep-starved face. This was NOT your average
priest, asking you to come to Church more often, to love thine neighbor, and to
pay your tithe. This priest reaches out,
and grabs you by the conscience. “I want
to light a spark under the feet of all these people here, to wake them up from
their stupor.”
Strong
words, but at least they are backed by strong actions. Since moving to Laval
from Toronto last year, Father Zisis and his wife Magda have pumped new life
into their Church. Sunday school went from non-existent to over 40 children now
in attendance. Last year, he and his
GOYA kids held a marathon which helped raised almost $2700 for charity. The
children gave half of it to the Ladies’ Benevolent Society at the Church, and
the rest was donated to the Old Brewery Mission. In January, Father Zisis took the children to
feed the homeless at the Old Brewery Mission —to see the fruit of their good
deed. “A lot of the kids were moved by that visit and were inspired to do well
in school and make something of themselves,” he says.
On the cold gym floor, Father Zisis strives to
relate to the kids so that his words can sink in. “Do you know who Pitbull is?” his voice
echoes as he asks his young audience. Jackpot. The children’s eyes light-up,
and they answer in eerie unison; “YA!!!!!”
Now he’s got’em! The priest tells them an abridged, but not fully
censored story of the Cuban-American singer’s rise from rags to riches, and
that he just helped build a school for poor kids. Pitbull is not exactly my choice for a role
model, but relating to kids can be tough in this day and age, so full credit to
Father Zisis for his modern approach.
After
a quick tête-à-tête with his GOYA parents and briefing on the annual spaghetti
dinner fundraiser, we continue our conversation. “Young kids have a need for God because, if
they’re only counting on themselves –that’s a lot of pressure,” he argues,
adding that the feeling of having no one to count on but yourself leads to
anxiety and depression, if not violence and in extreme cases, suicide. “We’ve been
feeding kids this pipe dream that, somehow,
being a go-getter, money, a Ferrari in the driveway, fancy trips…that
materialism will make them happy, but it won’t!” he exclaims. After the Christmas holidays, Father Zisis
hosts a three-day camp for kids to play outdoors, learn Bible stories, make
friends, and create memories. His
ultimate goal is lofty but simple. “The Church doesn’t belong to me. It’s
theirs,” he says. “I want them to feel
like it’s their home –like they have somewhere to turn.”
We parents, he argues, do a
heck of a whole lot to meet our children’s material and emotional needs. But
what about their souls? What about their spiritual needs? This made me think
about my own children. I can safely say I grew with more spirituality than they
did, so what will that mean for them down the line? This is the point of Father
Zisis’ words. They are meant to “wake you up” as he says.
“I hope these kids ground their lives in faith in Christ. I’m looking for just
a little spark, and if it’s there, it will be there for the rest of their
lives.”
Father Zisis and the GOYA
can be reached at 450-973-3480. This
summer, he plans to sponsor 30 kids to attend Camp Metamorphosis in Rawdon, a
Greek Orthodox Christian camp. The camp costs 250$ per week per child.
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